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Why Comparing Yourself To Others Is Bad and How To Stop

Why Comparing Yourself To Others Is Bad and How To Stop

In Phenomenal Living

I recently listened to a Podcast episode named “5 Reasons to Leave Social Media” by Dr. Shante’ Bishop of Branding for Believers. This podcast episode really resonated with me because I got off of social media with the exception of sharing blog posts and to interact with the moms in the Phenomenal Moms Facebook Group. Social media became a drain for me because I would post and then constantly look at the metrics to see how many people liked it and how many people commented. I was really concerned about the perception of me via social media. I was obsessed with…

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Why Your Credit Score Is More Important than You Think

Why Your Credit Score Is More Important Than You Think + How To Improve It

In Finance

One day I was speaking to one of my mentors and she told me that when she was growing up, she was told that credit cards were just like layaway (putting your clothes aside and making payments on them until the balance is paid off and then you take them home) except better because you could take your stuff home immediately. She said that she noticed that the people who were taught that were in financial distress. That story made me start thinking about some of the things I have seen and some of the beliefs I had about credit…

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How to bounce back after a financial mistake

How to Bounce Back After A Financial Mistake

In Finance

Can I be honest with you? We all make mistakes and succumb to impulse purchases that cause us to overspend. Recently, I went to Toys R Us to get a wagon for the twins. The twins were getting a little big for the stroller and it looked like it wasn’t comfortable anymore. Therefore, I decided to get a wagon. When we got to Toys R Us, my mom saw toddler bikes so she took them down so the kids could ride on them while we were in the store. The kids absolutely loved them! They were having so much fun…

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How to stay sane during the summer and not go broke

How Single Moms Can Stay Sane and Not Go Broke During the Summer

In Finance

According to a survey by TODAY Parents, 44% of parents think that summer is more stressful than the rest of the year. There is another study by Seeker that shows that during the summer months stress increases because of pressure to keep children occupied, extended family time, managing busy social calendars, packed weekends, and work piling up after an extended vacation. I believe that summer vacation can be even more stressful for single moms because of the added stress of finding affordable and reliable childcare. There’s also increased financial stress from the pressure to figure out educational, enjoyable, and safe…

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God Loves Single Mothers Too- An Open Letter to Single Moms on Mother's Day

God Loves Single Mothers Too: An Open Letter to Single Moms on Mother’s Day

In Faith

I really wanted to write this post to celebrate the single moms on Mother’s Day. I think that it is extremely important because unfortunately, we can experience judgmental, condescending, and critical attitudes from others because we are single moms. Sometimes people say, “They must have done something to deserve it,” “they made a bad decision,” etc. However, in all of the criticism, these judgmental attitudes fail to address the elephant in the room – we, mothers, chose to stay and parent our children. We didn’t choose to leave. In 1 Timothy 5:8, the Bible says, “But if anyone does not…

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