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Why Comparing Yourself To Others Is Bad and How To Stop

Why Comparing Yourself To Others Is Bad and How To Stop

In Phenomenal Living

I recently listened to a Podcast episode named “5 Reasons to Leave Social Media” by Dr. Shante’ Bishop of Branding for Believers. This podcast episode really resonated with me because I got off of social media with the exception of sharing blog posts and to interact with the moms in the Phenomenal Moms Facebook Group. Social media became a drain for me because I would post and then constantly look at the metrics to see how many people liked it and how many people commented. I was really concerned about the perception of me via social media. I was obsessed with…






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God Loves Single Mothers Too- An Open Letter to Single Moms on Mother's Day

God Loves Single Mothers Too: An Open Letter to Single Moms on Mother’s Day

In Faith

I really wanted to write this post to celebrate the single moms on Mother’s Day. I think that it is extremely important because unfortunately, we can experience judgmental, condescending, and critical attitudes from others because we are single moms. Sometimes people say, “They must have done something to deserve it,” “they made a bad decision,” etc. However, in all of the criticism, these judgmental attitudes fail to address the elephant in the room – we, mothers, chose to stay and parent our children. We didn’t choose to leave. In 1 Timothy 5:8, the Bible says, “But if anyone does not…






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Lessons from the Flood- What Noah Can Teach Us About Obedience

Lessons from the Flood: What Noah Can Teach Us About Obedience

In Faith

Genesis 7 is a great chapter about the Lord’s timing, instruction, and our obedience. It starts out by saying, “When everything was ready.” (Genesis 7:1). To provide some context to that statement, I want to go back to Genesis 6 for a moment. In Genesis 6, the Lord kept warning that there would be a flood, and in the warnings, He told the people that they had 120 years before they perished in the flood. Then the Lord said, “My Spirit will not contend with humans forever, for they are mortal; their days will be a hundred and twenty years.” – Genesis 6:3 (NIV)…






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Why Tax Time Is A Great Time For Single Moms To Catch Up On Their Financial Goals

In Finance

Did you know that about 8 out of 10 tax filers will receive a refund with the average refund being $2,800 (CNN Money)? If you are a person who expects to receive or has received a refund this year, then now is a great time to use your tax refund to catch up on your financial goals and priorities. If you take the time now, you will reduce your stress and have more money to do things later in the year. For example, there was a story that went viral about a single mom making minimum wage who used her…






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Is Your Single Mom Guilt Affecting Your Kids? Your Money? Your Life?

In Faith, Finance, Phenomenal Living

Sometimes the thought of being a single mom, especially an unexpected single mom, is enough to shut down emotionally. I know because I have been there.   I am a single mom of twins and I was left during pregnancy, so I understand the deep emotional strain of becoming a surprise single mom. However, it is important to not just avoid shutting down but also not to establish bad emotional and financial habits that will impact your children. The first thing to do is to recognize that even if you feel alone, you are not.   According to the Census, 10 million…






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