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Why Comparing Yourself To Others Is Bad and How To Stop

Why Comparing Yourself To Others Is Bad and How To Stop

In Phenomenal Living

I recently listened to a Podcast episode named “5 Reasons to Leave Social Media” by Dr. Shante’ Bishop of Branding for Believers. This podcast episode really resonated with me because I got off of social media with the exception of sharing blog posts and to interact with the moms in the Phenomenal Moms Facebook Group. Social media became a drain for me because I would post and then constantly look at the metrics to see how many people liked it and how many people commented. I was really concerned about the perception of me via social media. I was obsessed with…






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he Most Rewarding Vacation Spots for a Single Mom and Her Kids + What it Takes to Get There Financially

The Most Rewarding Vacation Spots for a Single Mom and Her Kids + What it Takes to Get There Financially

In Finance, Phenomenal Living

Did you know that even as a single mom you can take amazing vacations? Single motherhood is not a poverty wish nor is it a wish to live a life void of phenomenal experiences. This is why I’m so excited to share how you, a single mom, can still travel, have amazing experiences, and create great memories with your children. This post shares tips on where to take your children and how you can save up the money to travel debt-free. P.S. Check out the special vacation planner at the bottom of this post (totally free and no opt-in required).  …






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Is Your Single Mom Guilt Affecting Your Kids? Your Money? Your Life?

In Faith, Finance, Phenomenal Living

Sometimes the thought of being a single mom, especially an unexpected single mom, is enough to shut down emotionally. I know because I have been there.   I am a single mom of twins and I was left during pregnancy, so I understand the deep emotional strain of becoming a surprise single mom. However, it is important to not just avoid shutting down but also not to establish bad emotional and financial habits that will impact your children. The first thing to do is to recognize that even if you feel alone, you are not.   According to the Census, 10 million…






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Now is the Time: 3 Steps to Take Before Setting Your New Year’s Resolutions

Now is the Time: 3 Steps to Take Before Setting Your New Year’s Resolutions

In Phenomenal Living

As we near the completion of 2016, it is time to start planning for 2017. Oftentimes we hear the overused phrase, “New Year’s Resolutions”. Many people like to set New Year’s Resolutions because the New Year is a great time to start over; however many of these resolutions don’t get accomplished and the New Year looks like previous years. The only way to break this cycle is to get intentional about your vision and plan for the New Year. Think of this as setting your annual plan. Just like you get an annual physical to ensure you’re healthy, I want…






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Holiday Shopping on a Budget 101: What You Do and Do Not Need to Buy for Your Kids

In Finance, Phenomenal Living

The holidays can be deeply overwhelming as a single mom. It can be difficult if money is tight and it may serve as a reminder of the other parent’s absence. Sometimes we think that it is our job to love or provide for them times two. At one point, I shared with a friend the pressure that I felt as a single mom. I felt like I had to be both parents and make up for the fact that their dad walked out. I told her that I never wanted my children to feel his absence. She told me that…






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